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[quote=Anonymous]I can't speak for anyone else. But I had miscarriages and infertility prior to child 1 and child 2. I did multiple cycles of IVF for both. For me,[b] the pain of a miscarriage and failed IVF cycles before having a child was LIGHT YEARS harder than those I had after having a child.[/b] I had a true fear that nothing would ever work and I would never become a mom. Once I had a child the subsequent losses were hard but nothing as hard as the first time. I had hope that my body could eventually get pregnant because it had eventually done it before. I had a child. I had experienced motherhood. Nothing could take that away from me. If I never became pregnant again or lost another 5 babies I still had the joy and gift of my living child. The first time around I had none of this. It was a very scary and dark time and MUCH harder. [/quote]
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