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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, I am shocked this isn't unanimous.

Of course you should do this and hell no don't tell your husband.  [b]Why would you force your loving husband to further confront the obvious[/b], that he is physically incapable of fulfilling the most basic human need.

If you don't do this, you will become more resentful, your heart will continue to wander and you may end up with caregiver burnout and divorce him.  How is any of that better for either of you.

Go for it, be discrete and you are already 100x the person that the naysayers on here are.[/quote]

Umm.  Maybe because it's .....obvious?  It's obvious that most people (women or men) need some kind of sexual activity.  Ignoring the elephant in the room isn't healthy.

IMO, OP should talk to her DH about it, because it involves him -- is she going to lie to him about it?  what if he found out?  what if talking about it could provide some improvement in aspects of their relationship even if it isn't full natural PIV sex? (more touching, other kinds of sexual activity, etc.)  what if DH would give "permission" for it and OP and DH could negotiate boundaries that they might both feel comfortable about.

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