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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For some women it's just about the sex. Most APs who are women are hoping he will leave the wife at some point. They are jealous of the wife's life and after awhile most APs realize they were only for 1 thing. No different than a piece of toilet paper. Certainly there are exceptions, but this is pretty much the rule.
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Definitely my situation. And she was completely obsessed with my now ex-husband, my child and my life. I even noticed how over time her social media started to mirror my own. She would take pics with her child and create posts very similar to the ones I posted with my child. It was weird. She did many things to copy me, including moving to my neighborhood from out-of-state and putting her child in the same school as mine. I wear my hair very short and she cut hers off. It kind of reminded me of the movie "Single White Female."

I first discovered their affair when she started to comment on pics of my child that my ex would post. She acted as if she knew him. She was clearly trying to mark her territory and let it be known that she was somewhat familiar. She know of my child, but didn't know my child. Zoom to 7 years later and my former spouse left to be with her. I wish them the best that two disgusting people deserve. But all descriptions they are both narcs.

So yeah, some OW's are in it just for the sex or whatever, but some are clearly nutcases and these dumbass men fall hook, line and sinker. [/quote]
Yeah, you’re divorced, but you did marry his dumbass![/quote]

I surely did. But I was never an OW. [b]Have you ever seen how someone behaves when they're in affair. They are TOTALLY different.[/b] The asshole I divorced was nothing like that man I married. [/quote]
Curious as to what differences you noticed. My spouse did not behave any differently, as far as I could tell. [/quote]

Different poster, but my friend told me he started shaving down there. Didn't approach her for sex very often, and she found a cheap bracelet in his toiletry kit which wasn't anything she would wear.  Looked at his phone location, parts of it were erased, then she knew.  Found out all the details after she hired a P.I. for 2 days.
An ex of mine had large time gaps, and lame excuses. I followed him with a friend in her car and broke up with him right away. My feelings were over for him at that point. I believe cheaters pick what they think are gulliable people, like all types of abusers. [/quote]

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