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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you try to put your foot down and tell dh to shut up or else? I suspect you are too scared to do it. Divorce is the only way for you to leave this abuser.[/quote]

OP: Six months ago I told DH he needed to get professional help or else we were done.  I originally thought he had some type of mental disorder.  He is now in therapy, and there have been improvements (e.g., the name-calling has stopped for the most part), but the controlling nature is still there.[/quote]
Thanks. Can I ask a question? Does your DH exhibit this behavior with only your and ds? Is he easily embarrassed by his parents? Is he overly worried about appearances? Or is he a jolly good fun when it comes to other people? I ask because my ds has severe social anxiety, and if you did not know he has it you would think he is as nasty as it gets to me and his sister. He is getting better with meds and therapy, but has the need to control us, as we are the only people he feels "safe" with. Still not ok, and I have to deal with this with ds all the time. Has anyone suspected your dh has unchecked anxiety? Just throwing this out there, still doesn't make it ok and I am not saying, not at all, that you should put up with it in the slightest.[/quote]

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