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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will agree that I do not find 95% of the men I randomly see attractive. Very few men really do it for me. Maybe I'm unusual in that regard but I doubt it.[/quote] This is totally normal[b] for women[/b]. You are NOT unusual.[/quote] If this is so true, would not see so many men in relationships or married. Total red pill that makes no sense. So all these women are with men they do not find attractive? [/quote] The subject thread is about [b]initial[/b] (ie physical) attraction. And the fact is, not too many woman would ever look at a guy (any guy) and think to herself "[i]I am [b]physically attracted[/b] to that guy[/i]". Only a tiny fraction of men ever inspire such thoughts in women (any women). Instead, most marriages and relationships come about because the guy pursues her, then (despite little to zero [b]physical attraction[/b]) she gets to know him and her attraction for him develops based on other things (NOT his physical appearance). Men don't work that way at all. Most men are physically attracted to women everywhere, and it is quite rare that a man would EVER date a women where that initial PHYSICAL attraction is absent.[/quote] Woman here. I also agree that I find hardly any men attractive by just looking at them. The 5% that do it for me, is usually because of how they carry themselves, their facial expressions, laughter, pride in their appearance. HOWEVER, not all of these 5% would be considered objectively great looking. Some of them were quite short or receding hairline, exceptionally skinny or a bit overweight. There was just something about them that inspired me to get into a conversation with them and that usually confirmed my initial attraction based on looks. Many women most likely would not have the same attraction to these guys as me. Trying to say that even if most women are only attracted to 5% of the guys she sees, it is a different 5% for every woman. [/quote] I think I'm physically attracted to more men than you seem to be, but I agree with you that I have been attracted to men who aren't necessarily considered attractive by tons of people. For example--though I obviously never met him--I have always been seriously drawn to George Harrison. It doesn't matter to me that for years he had bad teeth, was super skinny, etc. I think he was gorgeous and his personality (so far as I can tell from interviews and reading everything I can get my hands on about him from friends and family) has only made him more attractive to me. Alternatively, I can recognize that someone like Idris Elba is hot--and I would be insane to not want to bang him--but it's not the same thing. [/quote]
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