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[quote=Anonymous][quote]The subject thread is about initial (ie physical) attraction. And the fact is, not too many woman would ever look at a guy (any guy) and think to herself "I am physically attracted to that guy". [/quote]

This is why it's impossible to go to a bar or on Tinder and find a woman willing to have a hookup.  :roll:

[quote]Only a tiny fraction of men ever inspire such thoughts in women (any women). [/quote]

I guess I'm more awesome than I thought!

[quote]Instead, most marriages and relationships come about because the guy pursues her, then (despite little to zero physical attraction) she gets to know him and her attraction for him develops based on other things (NOT his physical appearance). [/quote]

As a general rule, you can get to sex in three to five dates. Basically, if she agrees to a second date, it's yours to lose. And then there's the period of "new relationship excitement" where you have crazy monkey sex all the time. So I guess that somehow these women went from "zero physical attraction" to "down for crazy monkey sex" in a really short period of time. They got to know me (and appreciate the "other things" than physical appearance) well enough to feel intense physical attraction on the basis of an hour or so each in three different coffee shops and restaurants. Fascinating. Or maybe they actually did feel physical attraction in the first place...

[quote]Men don't work that way at all. Most men are physically attracted to women everywhere, and it is quite rare that a man would EVER date a women where that initial PHYSICAL attraction is absent. [/quote]

Eh. The number of physically attractive women isn't all that high. Lots of men are willing to settle for "good enough" though, because sex does not require a high level of emotional investment for them. What you're also missing is that plenty of guys will have sex due to initial physical attraction, but as the relationship progresses he increasingly notices the "other things" about her than physical attraction, e.g., she is annoying, stupid, or crazy. And that's when she gets the old "ghost and block" treatment.[/quote]

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