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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My marriage is dead. There is no hope of reviving it. But for a number of reasons I’m staying, maybe even long term. I’ve been fairly unhappy for the last few years and would like to change this. For those staying in a dead marriage, how do you stay happy? Do you have life goals? Are they joint goals with your spouse? What are they? I’m struggling to make sense of my life in this situation. [/quote] Now that the kids are grown, I’m going to spend more time with family out of state, helping out. I started an online business which is thriving. Plan to do more trunk shows, etc. My business will grow better in my home state. Most importantly, is that I have a few close personal friends of the opposite sex who emotionally fill my cup. It’s not that I hate my husband, I don’t; I’m just tired of the untreated ADD crisis after crisis - I’m burned out. I need to do for me now. I don’t make NYE resolutions, but I did make one to do an open mic and get myself involved in a singer/songwriter group, locally and where my family is. My best (male) friend is planning on doing one of his own. I’m going to spend more time on productive forums (less time on this one) and on FB because my very large family is active there and it keeps me less lonely and more in touch. [/quote]
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