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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did I miss something, or are you upset because you spent $900 and the ex spent $1,000? There's almost no difference between those two numbers. Also, that's a lot to spend. You could probably dial it back quite a bit. I'm raising an 11-year-old with my ex and we compare notes before holidays to make sure we're not gifting the same thing. (unless it's something she would want at each house.) But I don't care who spends what, or if she likes his gift more. It just doesn't matter. I'm not sure it would occur to my daughter to thank me for taking her to Frozen 2. Which I did, and I was super bored and wishing I had seen Zombieland 2 instead. :-) She did get excited to go, though, and that's basically the same thing.[/quote] OP doesn't like her stepkids, so that's why their excitement and enjoyment are besides the point. Christmas is a gauntlet for her to demonstrate how loving and giving she is, better than their mom, and how disappointing the stepkids are. [/quote]
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