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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most important takeaway curious wives/husbands: Every Sidepiece situation is different.

If the married one is a sex addict and possible narcissist/liar, this may present different considerations than an AP who encounters their married lover in an intense work situation, or a married person who may have always been fundamentally incompatible with their marriage partner.

Gotta look at your own partner, their motivations and issues, and evaluate accordingly. [b]For the sidepiece, the relationship is not about the partner being married or unmarried; it’s how they are treated within the confines of the arrangement.[/b]

The time I was an AP, the married person lamented about their separation and all the issues she was having with him. I knew he was exaggerating blame possibly (as he was having obvious financial problems ). I really didn’t care about that at the time. I’d just come out of an abusive relationship so he was the bridge for positive attention and intimacy on my end.

It is the married persons responsibility to honor their marriage, not the APs.

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This. They don't give a f*** about the spouse otherwise they wouldn't be sleeping with the husband/wife. They don't care about your kids, your house, your mortgage, how long you have been together. They don't care. Once you accept that part the rest of the it makes sense. [/quote]

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