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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have the right to raise your kids as you want, but technically you are actually not Jewish and neither are your children unless you converted when you married your husband. In Judaism, the religion is passed from mother to children. So maybe this is where you mom is coming from as she sees (correctly) her grand kids as Christians. [b]No flame please, I am just pointing out the law. [/b] Now if you want to raise your kids Jewish, I am sure you are aware of the prayer on "washing of hands" followed by the prayer on bread, both are said before eating a meal. And pretty much ANY food has to have a prayer BEFORE eating (haEtz, Hadama, ChaAhKol, ...). In fact, in Judaism, you actually recognize God in pretty much everything. The largest difference between Christianity and Judaism (without wanting to go into theological discussions) is that the God of Israel is unique (no man is or can become God -- nothing with trinity and virgin birth) AND the God of Israel is not into "turning your other cheek" stuff. That is very Christian. But praying God to have given us what we eat, is not Christian per-se. [/quote] you're even worse than the pushy Christians. Op's child is Jewish, period. And even if she is not Jewish per your fundamentalist congregation, that doesn't mean the child is Christian through genetics. Not how it works!![/quote] +1. This child is being raise a Reform Jew and the kid is Jewish. No one enjoys it when the very-religious-but-full-of-themselves weigh in. OP, Good luck getting your mom to back off. Can you compromise with a different and Jewish blessing when she is over? I certainly agree that the words she is proposing are pretty Christian in tone. I’d be put-off, too. [/quote]
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