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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those of you who claim everything is fine and you only know people with similarly fine family situations - the common denominator is likely you. The people in your lives just don't come to you with their real issues because they know you will either not understand because all is perfect in your world (or pretend that is is) or they know you are a judgy person and will think less of them because of it. In law issues are SO COMMON everywhere that you are either a jerk or living under a weird midwestern rock.[/quote]

[b]OR....they are the actual issue. [/b]

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How pleasant to be you to get along with everyone in your life.  So you get along with your in-laws and your own family, your marriage must be perfect and your relationship with your children perfect.  You have remained friends with everyone and always gotten along with everyone you have ever met, even everyone at work loves and respects you, everyone likes you. Good for you.

If what you are saying is that people that don't get along with their in-laws are the problem then all the people posting on here that they don't like their partners, they are the problem too. That goes for anyone who has posted about their own family or having problems with their children. In fact what you are saying is that if you have a problem with anyone then it is essentially your fault and your problem.  That you will be the actual issue.

What if like myself I have a massive MIL problem but that is the only relationship in my life I have a problem with.  Is it me then or is it her?  I can tell you that her other son doesn't speak to her, her other DIL is currently ignoring her, she has had fall outs with friends but what you are saying, is that the actual issue is with me.

You think you are so wise but how stupid are you, you are making assumptions on so little information about these people that are posting. You think it's easy for you so it should be easy for everyone, it doesn't occur to you that it may be easy for you because you have a kind MIL. It's actually nothing to do with you or how you have behaved.  You know what they say about people that make assumptions but then again you probably wouldn't know because you are so dumb.[/quote]

That’s not what I’m saying. The opposite. Go reread. 
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