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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Because MIL is passive aggressive.

She drives her kids and husband and SIL and DIL nuts and then whines and cries that other people are depressed, jerks or mentally ill.

No more Xmas there for a while. She is a holy terror. [/quote]

Me again. This time...so many comments from MIL about my weight. She brings it up every time. She called the SIL “gaunt.” I just ignore her comments. No one can do anything right but her. It is her way or nothing.

She has broken my ceiling fan, gouged my wall and pulled plants she did not like from our garden. Sure. That is all our fault. 
She also jammed our kitchen chair into the floor because we have a heating vent in an awkward place. She bent the heating vent and I had to buy a new one.

So I lost an expensive plant, still have a ceiling fan to fix and had to pay for a new heating vent.

Right. DILs can dish it out. I wish. I would never pull her plants up or destroy her house. But maybe I will start. Lol.

God, I had forgotten some of this. Does anyone else have a MIL this bad? [/quote]

No it's not just you, I have a MIL that bad.  MIL and FIL helped us move years ago. They offered and DH said yes.  I asked them if they needed help with some light boxes as they were taking them up the stairs and I said they could leave them because the walls were freshly painted.  My MIL walked up the stairs banging her box into the walls all the way up with each step.  All I could see and hear was bang bang bang against our walls.

She then carried one of our boxes that said kitchen fragile and she dropped it from her chest level.  I heard smashing as it hit the tiled floor. The funny thing with that was the only thing that broke in the box (yes it was also wrapped) was a decorative bowl she had given us.  Karma I say. I gladly threw that out.  I have since thrown out all the things she has given us.  It's so cleansing.

These in-laws are not normal.  I told them to stop, thanked them for their help and said we would do the rest.  They stood on the driveway glaring at me.  They have never stood one foot in our house again, their choice, not ours.  Something not quite right with them that's for sure.[/quote]

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