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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love the stern "stop stalking him on social media people." If it were that easy, she wouldn't be asking for help, Einstein.

It does seem odd to do this if you have a satisfying relationship. Or if it is clear at least from his social media shares that he is in a relationship. Often these obsessive "crushes" are fueled more by uncertainty. If there is no prospect of anything happening, the longing dies out pretty quickly.

If you have OCDish tendencies, maybe talk about something like Lyrica with your doctor. [/quote]
Did you read the original post? I don’t have a crush on him. I have intrusive thoughts and dreams. Thankfully there’s been a lull since I posted this. [/quote]

I think he represents something that is missing in your own life?  Obviously, he is no longer the same person that he was in college but neither are you.

You might be feeling wistful about getting older, perhaps?  Is there something that you can do to reclaim some of your old youthful enthusiasm?  Maybe join a club?  Start running 5Ks or whatever?[/quote]

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