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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why anything has to change just because you found out that he is “rich.”  This should not even matter.  Buy him what you would have had you not know about his finances.  Do not tell him you want a Cartier watch!!!!  Ask for what you would have asked him for before you knew about his finances. [b] Act as if his money is not yours. Because it isn’t yours.[/b]  [/quote]

+1. You don’t treat it any differently than any long distance relationship with a 35 year old divorced guy
- make sure he is really unmarried and the basics of what he has told you are true - just because you meet family and friends doesn’t mean he is divorced
- don’t move to him unless you are engaged
- don’t change yourself to be with a guy
- make sure you are on the same page about kids/no kids
- make sure you have similar values about life and what’s important
- always have your own money
- continue to be confident in yourself

The fact he has money doesn’t change anything other than assume he will want a prenup if he gets married and you would be giving up a six figure job to move to him and “travel the world”.   
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