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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I now need to lose 15 lbs and be tanner and more...trophy-like. I also have no idea what to buy him for Christmas because what do you buy the person who is literally buying themselves a new Tesla for Christmas - "Oh here babe I got you a nice steering wheel cover to keep your hands warm in your gajillion dollar car"

Also he asked me what I wanted for Christmas, and how do I even answer that?! I'd been saving for a Cartier watch, but I now I feel like it'd be gold-diggery of me to mention I'd been saving up for one.... but if I didn't know he had all that money, I would have had no problem joking that he should buy me the watch (and assume that I wouldn't get it)[/quote]

I am very wealthy and married someone in the same circle. However before him, I dated someone who came from blue collar parents.  To answer your questions:

1. He likes you as you are. If you want to lose weight to be healthy, do it. Don't try to be a trophy wife. If he wanted a trophy wife he'd have gotten someone 10 years younger than you.  He likes you the way you are.

2.  Buy him something for Christmas that shows you listen to him.  The best present my ex boyfriend got me?  After my beloved dog died, he took 12 pictures of her and had a calendar made where each month had a different pic of her. Maybe it cost $50? I don't know. The sentimentality was what moved me.  He also once rescued an animal in my name.  He also cooked my favorite meal for me.  You don't have to be rich to knock it out of the park, gift-wise.

3.  Do NOT joke about a Cartier watch.  Tell him you want cashmere socks. A fancy candle that you'd never buy for yourself. Fancy salts. Things like that.  [/quote]

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