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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My fiancé and I are panning our wedding and can't agree on how big or small to have it. We are paying for it ourselves, but most of the money is from his savings. I really want a small wedding, but he thinks we should have a big wedding. My immediate family alone is 20 people. I think 50 friends and family is enough but he wants closer to 100. I feel like I already have everything I want and would rather use most of our savings for a down payment on a home. He thinks we can do both or just stay in his condo until we save up for a down payment. I feel like I got the ring of my dreams ( which I know was expensive) and I don't care about a big wedding. How can we compromise or decide? [/quote]

You're making this all about you, OP. Not a great way to start marriage. You got what YOU wanted -- the big ring -- but your fiance can't have what he wants - a bigger wedding. Why is it okay for you to decide how to allocate the money, but not your fiance? It sounds like he really values a bigger wedding and having more friends to celebrate with. Why is that wrong? If you want to spend the money on a down payment, maybe you could return your dream ring for something smaller.[/quote]

This is what I was thinking. She got what she wanted so he should just forget about what he wants because, she wants something else he should give her (using the money for a downpayment on a house). [/quote]

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