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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. We don’t have money issues. The only two big purchases he has made since we started dating ( 1.5 years ago) was his condo and the ring. As he explains, eh what’s to give me a night we can remember. He wants to celebrate our love with as many people as possible. We both waited so long ( 30’s) to find each other that he just wants to celebrate our love. I still think a more intimate ceremony will be better, but we have decided to compromise to a budget and 75 people. My family with immediate, cousins, and aunt/uncles is working 40. His is around 15. Then we can invite around 20-25 friends. We currently have around $400k in savings ( me $100k, him $300k) that we want to touch. We both have more in investments and and an emergency fund. I’m not sure why PP would assume one of us would quit work when we have kids. We both will keep our jobs and use daycare/nanny. [/quote]
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