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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The first step To change is validation of your current feelings. Op, your mom traumatized you and you have every right to blame her! [/quote] Blaming her doesn't going to help. Trying to understand why she acted this way and to forgive her will help you to move forward.[/quote] What you list are next steps. First, the OP had to let out the anger, sadness, and yes, blame that she has for her parents. Only after that can true understanding begin. Then maybe forgiveness but maybe not. Jumping to “understanding” without exploring the pain and anger is just suppression, and won’t help.[/quote]
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