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[quote=Anonymous]You are 28 which is still young. It's ok to be sad and angry as you start to have clarity about your own childhood. I truly believe that most people make the best choices they can at the time. Which is to say, OP, it's worth trying to look at your parents' own histories to understand why they did what they did. It doesn't excuse them, but it does help pop the bubble of power you are giving them. Once you can at least see them in context, you are on the road to forgiving -- at least in part -- some of their actions. You might not be ready for this - you might be still too angry. That's ok. But some therapy with the goal of understanding everything and working to correct the stuff that is hurting you on a daily basis will help. Once you have that down, you can start to make peace with your past.[/quote]
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