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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kinky people have always existed. Until very recently in the US, it was not discussed openly.

DH and I are kinky. I’m a female submissive masochist. I introduced him to BDSM. We’re also fine, upstanding citizens. Taxpayers. Civil servants. Active in church and neighborhood associations.

I think far more people want to practice long-term monogamy than will ever admit it. Most are probably short-term serial monogamists at heart. Others probably fit into some type of polyamory. U.S. society is not set up to support long-term triads/thrupples or other group relationships. But there are many partnered people practicing some form of non-monogamy, sometimes ethically, sometimes not. DH and are monogamous, but we know a couple people who are not.[b] Interestingly, our kink social circle is almost exclusively monogamous couples.[/b] I think the swinger circles here must not overlap much with the kinky ones. Or the local swingers are very vanilla.

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How do you have a "kink social circle"  do you actually belong to a group that identifies as being into kink?  Or is it that the people that you are friends with just happen to be into kinky sexual behavior?  And if so, how would you know?  [b]I have no idea what my friends and their husbands do in the bedroom.[/b] [/quote]

Of course not.  Kinky people aren't out to convert anyone.  Especially those who may not get it or label some of the things we do as, abuse or worse.  But it's all around you.  Your friends, Chad and Becky from down the street may be dressed up half naked at a kinky party this weekend having fun and you will never know it.[/quote]

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