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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been in the midst of health issues before--and not the kind I want to talk about with everyone. One had unpredictable results, and I often had to cancel with short notice. Something could be going on in her life that has her strapped. I would not assume she is a jerk.

For friends who powered through and were patient with me, I am quite grateful.

And the meltdown example someone gave is another reason. I have missed events due to my child's crying and meltdowns, and I did not always want to share child's business with people I didn't know well.

Some of this has led me to accept fewer invitations.

I guess if people think I am a jerk for missing one event, they can.

Sounds like some of you have lives that result in you never making a mistake. You are most fortunate. [/quote]

It's not about being perfect, it's about honoring commitments.  Birthdays are really important to kids.  Most probably don't notice if one or two kids don't show up.  But if they only have a couple of kids show up, and several no shows, that can be a hurtful situation.

At least you are giving notice, it sounds like, and you have legit reasons.  I think there are people who RSVP yes when they aren't really sure if they'll make it, and then they no show.  That doesn't give the parent of the birthday kid time to manage expectations.  No one wants a kid to be in tears on their birthday. [/quote]

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