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Let me explain something to you. After a few years of marriage, most wives lose all sexual attraction .... for their husbands. At that point, the wife will simply go without sex for months/years/decades because women lack an internal sex drive and can sexually hibernate. The men of course immediately start cheating with any available woman and “looks great” is less important than “wants sex”.... because men have an active sex drive. But those wives after a few sexless years start getting bored and then along comes some horny married guy (his wife of course lost attraction for him) and he flirts his way into her pants.

The bottom line is that women are not morally superior but are lacking an actual sex drive which enables them to go long periods of time without sex. Also they are wired to lose attraction to their husbands so this is why most marriages are sexless ending in divorce. Men on the other hand HAVE a sex drive and can’t go more than a few weeks before they find a woman to cheat with. It all comes down to sex drive: men have one, women don’t. This is why you ladies can easily find sex with any man ... BECAUSE you don’t really want it.[/quote]

So, I'm tired of people spouting this stuff as fact....women losing sexual attraction because of long term marriage and that they are wired to lose attraction to their husbands.

--Stop saying like it is a fact.  No data to back it up.  Before you come back with data that's not relevant (i.e. other animal species behavior), I'm sure you're smart enough to know that correlation is not causation, and that something that holds true in other species may not hold true in humans.
--The way you state this, it appears that ALL women lose interest in sex in LTR/lose attraction to their husbands if they're married long enough.  Can't make such an unequivocal claim on both counts.  It's just not true 100% of the time.   
--Stop mansplaining why women lose interest in sex.  You don't know.  You sound both clueless and arrogant.  Truly a bad combination.

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