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[quote=Anonymous]A few years back I got irritated that we are not having sex as much as we used. So I thought I would withhold sex and see how she would fare. Using all my will power, I was able to hold off sex for around 3 weeks. So I used to masturbate 1-2 times each day so as not succumb to temptation and initiate sex.

She did not notice even after 3 weeks. So I blurted out what I have been doing and how pissed off I am.

She did not say anything, went into the closet and changed into a very sexy lingerie. She had me begging for sex for the next I think 45 minutes to an hour. I really begged that day.

After she relented we have sex, we had a long talk about what would help us both have more sex.

As far as Sex is concerned, men and women are not equal. Not by a long shot. Better to accept that your wife is (to use a North Korean analogy), The Supreme Leader, as far as sex is concerned. You need sex far, far, far more than she does. And, she is in a position to bestow that on you when she wants to.

I came to the realization that to have more sex, it is better to actually be deserving of more sex.

While everyone would be different, for us it is

1. Helping out with a lot more of the chores.

2. Giving her some free time all by herself everyday while I take care of kids and chores.

3. Paying a lot of attention to her. When she speaks, especially later in the evening, listen as if the world does not exist except her.

4. You may argue or fight earlier in the day. But by 6 PM, make sure you made it up with her. After 6 PM, she must becomes the center of your universe and you should only be complimenting her until bedtime.

She did not notice even after 3 weeks. So I blurted out what I have been doing and how pissed off I am.
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