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[quote=Anonymous]I think you are just used to a rich lifestyle of having someone else do all the work at home and your husband is getting annoyed. He does work himself all day and so the idea that you can't look after the kids and need to outsource childcare despite being at home is frustrating. 99% of parents at home with their kids don't have nannies or night nurses to provide the child care while they come and go as they please. I think this is a difference in values more than anything. You say your husband works 10-12 hours a day and that work is the financial income you live off of but you don't seem to really want to contribute anything back to the household. You want a carefree life of leisure while others are paid to do all the work. I doubt you cook or clean or do much around the house either - likely that is all outsourced as well. Are you much younger than your DH? Did you see marrying him and his money as a golden ticket to a life of no work? Since you don't want to look after the kids, you should get a job and use that money to pay the childcare costs. [/quote]
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