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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes resentment is used as an after-the-fact explanation for loss of libido. The libido was going anyway. The wife tells herself it's because of this or that transgression by the husband. But it's really just a hormonal shift from diminishing novelty, aging, pregnancy or the like. [/quote]

Nope. I thought I lost my libido from having kids. But really it was because of resentment towards DH and the stress our marriage caused. Once we split, my libido came back stronger than ever. [/quote]

Novelty is sexy. [/quote]

Nope. I’m very satisfied with my current long-term partner. [/quote]

Just because you are very satisfied with your current* long-term partner doesn't mean that novelty isn't sexy. (*current ... tells me it isn't all THAT long term). The two are not mutually exclusive.[/quote]

Agree that novelty is sexy.

I'm countering the original statement that women lose libido due to hormones and then blame resentment. In my case, it was absolutely resentment that killed my libido, not hormones or lack of novelty. In a healthy relationship I have no issue with libido whatsoever.

But that's not easy for many men to hear. It's easier to blame the woman. [/quote]
+1 I didn't want sex with DH when I had years of built up resentment, so I took it in hand myself, so to speak.  I still had the urge, just not with DH at the time.[/quote]

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