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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When a MIL is nasty or has a Jekyll and Hyde thing going on with the DIL - the reason is often because the MIL sees everything she is not in the DIL. The DIL is everything that MIL is not, and the MIL knows that and resents that. Ladies that are going through this - take that as a compliment - your DH chose you for that reason - exactly because you are the opposite of his horrendous MIL. Your DH is fully aware of how terrible his mom is - he picked you on purpose! [/quote] This is really gross and just confirms what I suspect when I read all of the MIL hate on this board. Women being the worst and competing with who will be the boss, #1 woman in the husband/son's heart. Its not a competition! Mom will always be mom and the wife is the woman he chose to marry. I sometimes feel sorry for the men in these situations because it must suck to be in the middle of such ridiculousness.[/quote] I think the MIL hate happens when the DIL makes the MIL look bad (not that difficult with some MILs) and the MIL knows it and resents the DIL, and spews angry crap at the DIL. Really, the DIL just got here, keep your hate to yourself, angry MIL - we know you had a crappy life, that is NOT your DIL's fault! [/quote]
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