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[quote=Anonymous]He was not angry about the fries, he was angry that you discounted his position and desires. Better solution: hon I know you want to wait for the fries. Should we pull over and ask them to bring it out? You desperately need counseling. You need to learn how to validate his feelii and position even if you disagree. I'm guessing neither of you do this with each other, and it's the root of "ridiculous" fights that have serious feelings attached to them. If you're not disagreeing over "big" stuff (infidelity, money, religion, etc) then I'm guessing it's the ways you two fail to listen, validate and respect each other. I also suspect you're each so entrenched in who is right or wrong you prioritize winning over compromise.[/quote]
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