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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP, I think the people giving you a hard time didn’t really read your post, they just saw the title and skimmed the text. It sounds like you’ve always been the one to give in your relationship and you’ve depleted your reserves. It’s okay to take care of yourself, it’s okay to have needs.Your DH is not shy about making his wants known to you, it’s time that you speak up too. This dynamic where you give and he takes is not sustainable forever. It’s probably best to go to marriage counseling to try to work things out. (He should also seek individual therapy for his anxiety/stress.) I just wanted to say you sound like a very kind person and a very supportive person. After all, you already supported your husband through a recent job change and big paycut! It’s okay to have needs too. Your mental health, stress and well being matter. You matter. You need to take care of yourself, not for your own sake but for your children too. [/quote] +1 [/quote]
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