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[quote=Anonymous]I tried to date a man like this once. Super religious (did not entirely realize the extent of his commitment to his church for a hot second), while I am not. I respected it, and respected his desire to wait, not thinking it was a huge deal for me.

The problem being he was 35 and well, desperately didn't want to be waiting any more. Which made him want to explore, but not actually have sex. All of which was fine with me until we came to the guilt portion of the experience. Every time he even had a sexual thought he would rack himself with guilt, then stop talking to me, then start thinking that everything that happened to him was God's punishment for touching a woman. Was hard to not feel like I wasn't good enough or Godly enough or pure enough for him when he went through the guilt thing over it.

It was a mindf*ck on a level I didn't know existed and screwed me up for quite a while. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

If you are OK with this and this guy doesn't have the guilt issue that so many of these religious-types seem to have around sex, then why not see where it goes. But if he does the guilt thing, I'd run as far and fast as you can. [/quote]

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