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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not “company” it is his parents.  OMG , of course, they are company. It requires work. Entertaining should be 100% mutual agreement. She is exhausted and does not want anyone over. They are local. Do it another time.  You must understand that everyone finds different things stressful. You be judgmental you and let the non entertainer be herself.
 Make a pot of chili, a pan of cornbread, and pick up what you can as you normally would.   This shouldn’t be an OMG super stressful entertaining event.  If you feel like the house needs to look perfect and you need to have a multiple course meal that is on you and your own anxieties.  Say hi and be pleasant.  His parents are likely more interested in talking to your DH and your kids anyhow.  If you don’t feel like being a major part of conversation busy yourself with something else.  If DH invited them over, then that is what he wants to do with his day off...not what you decide he wants to do.  [/quote][/quote]

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