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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to offer an alternative- i did have an ex randomly call me a couple years later to apologize. It was completely out of the blue and he felt guilty for being a cheater and also just generally treating me like crap. Apparently he met someone later that he got serious with and she was kind of a trading wreck from someone like him messing with her head.

So it’s possible he does just want to apologize (although the meet in person for drinks part makes it seem less likely)

Even if that is the case though, it’s just a lame attempt to assuage guilt. At best. Skip it.

Even the best case scenarios stink. He didn’t just cheat, he did it with your best friend. And if they were soul mates, a decent human would have at least broken up with you first and tried to be upfront about things. There are a lot of character flaws and insecurities that caused the breakup and this haven’t changed.  Stay strong - you’re handling things the right way by maintaining distance. [/quote]

He was 18 or 19. Almost every male that age does dumb, thoughtless shit because the hormones are raging and it controls them. Most grow up. Some dont. The key is trusting yourself enough to be able to figure it out.[/quote]

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