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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are smart to think ahead. CPS stops at nothing and having this issue pop up again is the last thing you want. Great suggestions on here. Thinking totally outside the box, what if you gave birth at a birthing center where there might be more privacy? And talk to the people you plan to deliver with ahead of time? And get your doctor and lawyer on board with prewritten letters that the medication is approved for pregnancy, or that you had this issue before and that you will test negative next time if you decide not to take the medication again, etc.? Find out from an attorney if they will call CPS regardless if you test positive next time or not. Have your prewritten attorney and medical letters ready to roll about possible implications to the hospital if they report you again regardless of test results. I would SUE if they report you again. Stop at nothing and don't take this $hit. You have rights!!! We had CPS on us for a different issue (due to a nanny situation), and I am still traumatized by it 5 years later. I have found that most CPS workers are rabid and ruthless, and stop at nothing (as you have seen from experience). Find out your full legal rights, get your doctor and attorney on board with written documentation ahead of time, and get all your ducks in a row in case you need to be on the defensive immediately. [/quote] Seems like they only “stop at nothing” when they have decent people and families involved. Wouldn’t it be great if CPS put some effort into saving the kids that actually need their help? I second the PP- have a lawyer ready and on retainer in case they try to come after you again.[/quote] This x1000. As a former therapist I can’t tell you how many times CPS dropped the ball or was dismissive of situations in which it would have been 100% obvious to anyone that a child was being abused. One case in particular still haunts me to this day and I’ve never looked at the agency the same. It’s interesting how they seem to go hard on families like the OP’s, where it should be an open and shit case absolving OP of any wrongdoing.[/quote] Shut!!?????[/quote]
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