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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP again: thanks O - are there any other insights to share or red flags you saw in attrition to the divorce threats? My DH often gives me the silent treatment but pretends things are ok, then when u try to talk to him about something like childcare or travel he won’t talk, and when I ask him to make a suggestion, he accuses me of always “steamrolling” him - it’s like I ask him what he wants, he says he doesn’t care, so I am forced to make a decision and he later calls it steamrolling. Does any of that sound familiar? I guess it is classic passive agfeessive behavior?[/quote] OP here: Yes. Silent treatment familiar. Different pattern—if I disagreed on anything, he would refuse to discuss it so he got his way on every decision. Then when I was upset, he would blame me for being “indecisive” or “weak.” I was not indecisive or weak—he literally refused to consider my opinion on everything.[/quote]
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