Reply to How to handle MIL visiting for too long

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "How to handle MIL visiting for too long"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]Think about your future. Your daughter marries someone and moves across the ocean. She has young kids and doesn't travel back so the only way to see her is to go to her. It tuna out her husband really doesn't want you in heir house. How do you feel? He begrudgingly agrees to a short stay and tells her to tell you that it is her idea and coming from her and not to put it on him.

Are you okay with that? Rarely or never really seeing your child or grand kids because the son in law prefers not to have guests. Do you go knowing you really aren't welcome?

I feel for her DH and MIL. What an awful situation for you to put them in. Do you have parents? It sounds like either you don't or you have a bad relationship since you can't understand why DH would want to spend time with his mother or have his mother with his kids or why his mother would want to come. Your own perspective is about you and how to you this is a burden and that only your needs and wants and feelings matter. You are really selfish and self centered.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics