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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be similarly hurt, OP, if my siblings were having a Labor Day Weekend BBQ and I was the only sibling excluded. Ouch. [/quote]
+1. It was deliberate since it was brought up and worse because it is a holiday. If they wanted you, they would have accommodated. It really isn’t that difficult to add a few extra servings to the extras they should have on hand for seconds anyway. Or even to ask each family to bring their favorite dish or something.

I’d be peeved and seriously put off. I don’t know more context, though. I’d have a word with my brother. [/quote]

You'd have a word with your brother?? Bahahaha!

You sound extremly dramatic & lacking in any sense of self awareness.

Your post screamed me, I, me, I, me, I, me.

Don't worry that they have to make food for THREE  extra people (that's a lot more than seconds) because it's for *ME*.

Don't worry that they may have something personal to discuss just between the two of them, because *I* want to go.

Don't worry that they really wanted to keep it small and intimate, because I don't care about anyone else's plans or feelings but *MY OWN*.

Don't worry that this had NOTHING to do with anyone disliking you, but because you're neurotic & self centered,  you're going to take it personally anyway, because *I* want to be there (I'm beginning to sense a valid reason for the lack of an invitation).

Good grief, you're not 5 years old, we don't have to invite the whole class for birthday parties anymore.

What if they were discussing throwing you a surprise party & now you've gone and created all of this unnecessary tension, drama & turmoil, and they were only trying to do a nice thing for you... it would serve you right for acting so self centered.

You need to get over yourself and realize not everything is going to be about YOU.  :roll: [/quote]

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