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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. How nice it must be for all of you rude posters to never have done something you feel ashamed of. I slept with him two times - didn’t carry on an affair. This is not my habit. I’m considering telling his wife (strongly leaning toward not, now) because it’s evident to me that this man is a habitual cheater. If it were me, I would want to know. However, everyone is different and perhaps she’s turning a blind eye. Given his behavior I’m sure she’ll discover something at some point.

I’m washing my hands of the situation. [/quote]

No judgment here. Just understand your audience. Lots of women here over 35 (myself included) who don’t want to start over so they’d rather just not know and blame some woman for targeting their husbands. Men, on the other hand, are aware of this and continue to win. OP, I’d want to know too but I don’t think that the average woman wants to.[/quote]

Exactly this.  Many people on this board are mom's and dads, this the M in DCUM. We have decent marriages but the sex life suffers with kids and marriage longevity and our secret worst fear is DH steps out and falls in love and disrupts the smooth sailing ahead.  I am not naive, I am sure my DH is typical and would love to bang some trashy girl. I don't need to know especially if it's over[/quote]

I'm that DH.  Would I love to bang some trashy girl?  Yes.  Do I?  Nope.  Did I?  Nope.  I'm also looking forward to the smooth sailing and now at 50+ value that much more.  But still, Honey, would it kill you to initiate sex every once in a while?  Thanks. 
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