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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I'll be the outlier here and wholeheartedly support OP's decision to keep her kids/family far away from their violent cousin.

Just, no.  No weekends, no bringing him along with you to on your own vacation, no forced Thanksgiving fake happiness.

I have sympathy for him and I hope he turns out well but ... I'm a provider in a locked, inpatient behavioral health unit here in the DMV. I get a bad feeling about this unfortunate kid from OP's words thus far. I'd never put him in the rec room with my same-age kids while I made dinner in the other part of the house.  Even supervised, it's patently unfair to OP's kids to subject them to a peer you expect to spit on them and tell them to F off.

I'd encourage her to keep showing support from afar with offers to fund therapies, etc.[/quote]

Agree to this.

I'd also encourage OP to have her parents step away from the child care.  If grandad ends up in the hospital from the stress of caring for the grandchild
the grandparents should step away.[/quote]

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