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[quote=Anonymous]My college age DD also got a new BF this summer. My rules are he needs to be gone by 10:30 PM on a "work" night, no being in bedroom with door closed and no lounging on the bed. Stay in den or living room. There are younger teens who are not as responsible as DD in our house and I do not want them thinking that having a BF means that you get to bring him home to lounge in the bed with you. Is she ticked? Absolutely. But my response is that if you want to behave like an "adult", i.e., have your BF over for as long as you want to do whatever you want, then you can do that when you are paying all your own bills and living in your own place. Adult is not an age, it is a state of being. That was my parents' position regarding their house. And it inspired me to get through school, get a good job, buy my own place before age 30 and then I could (and did) have as many BF sleepovers as I liked. And make sure she is on birth control. [/quote]
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