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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it bad to greet your spouse when they return home? Aren't you happy to see each other? When my kids were little and I was sah, I met him at the door and handed him a kid, which he happily received. Now that were older and I am home first, [b]I meet him and help him get settled in[/b]. He's a good dh and I am glad to see him.[/quote] I just honestly don't know what this means. Do you wait by the door, or is he always home at the same time? Does help him get settled in mean you take his coat? I have a great husband and I'm glad to see him, but I don't understand what you think you're doing differently than people who say hi and kiss when someone gets home. It seems both vague and very important to you.[/quote] He usually has his lunch bag, laptop and, sometimes, groceries. I help him by taking some of those things and putting them away. He changes his clothes and finishes work related details while I cook dinner. He has a stressful job, so I help him "settle in" by making a relaxing atmosphere at home. I am home 2 hours before him, so it's no trouble. The kitchen has a window and I see him arrive. I do not wait by the door, but if I see him pull up, I open the door for him. I wasn't saying I do anything different, just that I'm happy to see him each evening. [/quote]
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