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[quote=Anonymous]We dated 10 years, spent 4 of those long distance, and have been married 11 (mostly happily). Things I’m glad for: seeing he was decent during breakups, discussion about children and finances in advance, his solid advice on life stresses (like coming close to failing a class in college), getting through sad times (like deaths of loved ones). Not sure I realized this at the time, but he’s always been a calming influence for me, which I appreciate. I’m not sure it would have changed my mind, but I wish I’d reflected more on (a) how stressful we each find the other’s family (though to a large degree we each also find our own nuclear families stressful) and (b) now often he promises he’ll do things (big or small) and just flakes or doesn’t carry through. [/quote]
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