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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Btw I have also heard of this day referred to as a “traumaversary”.[/quote] That's absurd. [/quote] No it isn't. The day my child came into my care was the day the police broke down a door and removed her and she saw her bio father arrested. And if you have ever heard a bio mother cry when parental rights are terminated.you would understand it is not something to celebrate. [/quote] Yes, I've done TPR hearings as a professional. But, when it comes to that, except on a rare occasion, parents had many chances to get it together and the child deserves a family. There are many kids of adoptions and to lump it all together is absurd. If you don't agree with adoption, you could have kept your child under guardianship and let the parents maintain their rights.[/quote] You have zero empathy. Also, your post is all about the parents feelings. It may come as a shock to you but the adopted children are human beings. They often have complicated feelings about the events in their lives. Ugh. I really hope you don’t have children. [/quote]
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