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[quote=Anonymous] For those facing this decision on taking the keys away and if the other parent is not able to drive all that well, consider introducing them to the idea of using Uber or Lift in your area and I guess first of all getting them a smart phone to do so. If they can see that there are other options for transportation, the one without dementia may go along with the decision sooner. Or if they live in an area with senior driving or paratransit, have them try it out because it may reach the point where a caregiver is needed to supervise the person with dementia while in a car or other transportation mode. I second looking at lifecare options in their area and in your area. Also consider adult day programs and the cost of in-home aides because it sounds like your Mom may soon need a break from his care. It is also time if you have not done so before, to sit down and see if they have the correct legal, financial and health care documents in place and that you or the designated sibling have knowledge of whom to contact, where documents are, a list of passwords or numbers and keys to any safe deposit box etc. In some cases a name can be added to an account ahead to have things in place in a transition time. Also, see what services you might get in place for your Mom such as automatic bill pay, investment, insurance or other paper work that your dad would handle going to you or a sibling to handle. Can she use even a monthly cleaning service? Is it time for a yard service? Are there ways to order food ahead at Walmart or other local grocery store for car pickup? Or home delivery. Any of these might help reduce her burden.[/quote]
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