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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I assume your wife and the OM still work together, correct? A risk in telling the other spouse - and I saw it play it in my office - is that she calls the employer and gets them involved and then all bets are off, with termination being a possibility. Depending on your financial situation, consider this and the other ways in which you lose control of things once you involve the other spouse. I’ve also seen a spouse shame her husband and the OW by name on social media. Lots to think about and sorry you are in this spot.[/quote] They do still work together. I had similar thoughts and conversations with her about how this could affect her career. Luckily, we are financially stable and live within our means where a loss of job would not be a huge burden.[/quote]
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