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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. It’s just a gut feeling.  Ok. So for fellow dcum, some story time:)

So back track 20+ Years ago. DH and I used to be working in the same office before we got married. I tend to also notice things that the other colleagues wore and sometimes when I waited for him in the office, I would also just peep in his department at what his other colleagues had on their tables, their photos, their stationery etc.

Why sunglasses became one of the red flags in this recent episode for me... there was this colleague who had a pair of Gucci glasses which caught my attention because it was a special edition emblem on it. And she also had the habit of constantly biting on the arms of it when she was in meetings. I used to think she was seducing the men when she was giving them a very friendly look and biting on them like some high school drama queen!

Fast forward a few years, I had left the company but my husband remained.  one day my husband was let go and had his things sent from the office in a box the next day. I opened his box and I found this a pile of his own things but also in it, a pair of ladies glasses, Gucci, with those nibble marks on the arms! But it didn’t have the emblem so I wasn’t 100% sure that it belonged to that girl. There were also two other ladies sunglasses, some hello kitty type Asian girly stationery and a girls pink water bottle which I think I might have also seen when I was looking at some other colleagues random desk. Again all not sure.

The stuff was also all used before so it really looked like it did belong to someone else. He claimed he didn’t know why they packed those in there and I was about to dispose them. He got a little edgy-ish saying maybe someday his office might ask for it back etc. In the basement they went and then they disappeared. I never saw them again.

Then now this. So it just rekindled weird thoughts. We have a good relationship, no affairs nothing. Model husband, provided for the family, dedicated etc. Should I make a molehill out Of this or just bury it?

This is what I am battling with. Is he a dangerous man? Probably not. But something weird happening here. Maybe......
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Trust your gut.  Not likely a serial killer. But maybe some other perversion. Do you know the real reason why he was suddenly let go other than what he told you? I would be real curious about him losing a job in  a way that they mailed him his stuff. [/quote]

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