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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 56y/o Bfriend bought a 20y/o F coworker a concert ticket as bday gift to go with us bcz she likes 80s.  He took me w/him to his job to tell her Yet it felt wrong to me. I expressed my disagreement & said I dont want her to go with us. He admits it was the wrong thing to do but doesn't want to break his "word" & uninvited her.  So he asked me if I can do it just this once. Not to long ago he asked to move in with him.  We've been together 2yrs.  Am I overreacting? Concert is in August.[/quote]

Gross. That is definitely inappropriate. He's testing your boundaries and seeing how far he can overstep them. My take on it is that he orchestrated this to be an "oopsie, ask for forgiveness" situation vs. an "ask for permission" situation. Because he knows if he told you what he wanted to do and asked you for your input first, you would have said no (I would have said no, too. That is totally inappropriate and creepy).

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He is grooming her. Bet he dumps OP for the younger women.[/quote]

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