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[quote=Anonymous]I dunno, I think people are being a bit harsh on you OP. You guys are in the weeds now and 1) it’s not unreasonable for you to want more support and participation from your husband in maintaining the emotional atmosphere for your family and 2) 2 under 2 is survival mode — surely if he were more mature, he’d get that? Could be cultural but I don’t really understand why the emphasis on caring for his romantic needs at this stage of life. I mean, you chose to have the kids together. Yes it is hard. Yes it is OK to acknowledge that. Yes as the full-time caregiver you have needs too, and your husband isn’t a third child. At the end of the day you should rest. Empty cups don’t pour, if he wants more of you he should step up in the childcare department and let you recover. Two pregnancies and babies in such a short time does a number on your body and everything else. Best of luck.[/quote]
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