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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up with mother like op. Everything turned into her feelings. If you ever oncevdared to express your frustration or disagreement she would turn it all around to her, how desperately she needed reassurance. As a child my job was to deal with her anxiety, her anger, her insecurities.

She also pounced.anytine my dad went off--to a conference or party she didn't want to go to-- she would sit and stew and start to think about how disappointed she was. The minute he returned home she would ambush.

As I grew older, she would do this to me too. Once, I received a scholarship to spend a few weeks in Italy studying. At first she acted proud. A week in she called me (2 am her time, 7 am mine) to scream at me, how selfish I was (?), Just like my father, I gallivanted in Europe while shehad to deal with endless crap (never mind she didn't work, and I was both worked and in grad school).. Then she always acts all innocent and hurt whenever I try to call her on anything. It is always "but I just wanted reassurance/don't understand why you are so upset."she doest the constant nagging and badgering until you explode, then acts surprised

and innocent, with absolutle no understanding of how she created the situation.[/quote]

She sound very abusive. You may need to get so help with that baggage.[/quote]

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