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[quote=Anonymous]End it. He is doing you a huge favor by confessing his ambivalence about being your life partner. Maybe he has deep-rooted problems with intimacy or commitment. Maybe you are not the right fit for each other. Maybe he's having an affair and maybe he is just feeling like something is missing or there is something more exciting out there. Doesn't matter. A year after marriage, he is past the short-term anxiety that some people experience while planning a wedding. The slog and stress of parenting is not yet an issue. If he is ambivalent now, he is not going to become sure later. My ex was like yours, but he didn't confess to it. I saw and felt signs, but rationalized them. Nothing was terrible but it never quite felt right. Divorce with kids is now the biggest sadness and loss of my life. I got over the relationship more easily than expected, but the loss of my vision of family has been devastating. Don't put yourself in that position.[/quote]
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