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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suspect you'll get a lot of suggestions about what you're doing wrong and what you should say or shouldn't say or how to say it.

What you probably won't get is many (if any) real life examples of, "we had a talk, and it led to positive changes." People often think this is something that married couples ought to be able to communicate about productively. But the reality is that productive conversations about sexual desire are pretty rare in the real world. [/quote]

OP here, this is what I take away - there is no way to talk this out that leads to positive change.  To answer other questions, I am in good shape, so is she, she is SAHM, kids are 11 and 13 so in school all day.  We use toys when we do it, she finishes.

I do get female attention, she sees it, not really the jealous kind.

Perhaps sex 2-4 times a month is as good as it gets.  I will admit I am amazed she never offers anything in between since she knows I crave it.  [/quote]

Are you only initiating 2-4 times a month, or are you initiating a lot more than that, mostly getting rejected, and succeeding only 2-4 times?

I hope you're not sitting around waiting for her to "offer". That never works.[/quote]

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