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[quote=Anonymous]We have many posts here saying that OP's or pp's feelings are valid no matter how silly or wrong they are. Many give this opinion here on dcum. He told you how he feels, ok, then he went to sleep in your bed, by this point you cried already, then in bed you started to cry again. Then he went to the couch. This all sounds like you are awfully young and insecure. I would have told my DH of 25 years to look in the mirror before he starts talking s*it. Now, why are you a monster? What in your opinion prompted this name calling? Are you super uptight, are you controlling, etc... does everything have to be your way? Also, why were you not at this parents' house? Strange not to be there on Saturday evening, no?
Is he drinking and buying pricey cars and ruining you financially hence he thinks you are controlling?
So many unknowns here. I would like to take you side, and you could be totally right that he was just nasty, but you cried twice in a short period of time instead of asking him what makes him say that? I dislike women that cry at the drop of a hat. I see it as manipulative behavior and something difficult to pull off. If I am crying, it certainly takes a lot more then some one like from DH or heck, anyone. I am the person that cries for a whole hour every single time I watch Splendor in the Grass, or read a sad book, heck, I cried watching Avengers! But, not in fights like that, heck no. I perceive it as emotional blackmail. My sister is prone to this and she is definitely ocd, has to have her way and wont' drop a subject ever to prove everyone she was right and that we wronged her. Heck no, I am not putting up with I am crying hence you are wrong attitude. Clearly your DH feels the same I do.[/quote]

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